Exploring one of life's most valuable gifts
Lung cancer is a group of diseases that can affect anyone with a set of lungs. Although people who smoke cigarettes are at high risk of developing lung cancer, smoking is not the only risk factor. In honor of World Lung Cancer Day this week, I'd like to share a few facts that I learned... Continue Reading →
When my neighbor recently asked me where I get my dog groomed, I hesitated to answer. I wanted to help out her and her dog, of course, as well as the groomer who might appreciate additional business. But, I have been bitten (so to speak) a few times in the past by sharing with friends... Continue Reading →
A growing number of experts are emphasizing the importance of mattering, the sense that we are valued and that we add value to others’ lives. Jennifer Breheny Wallace writes in her book, Mattering: The Secret to a Life of Deep Connection and Purpose, that, “Mattering is what psychologists call a “meta-need” or “umbrella term” because... Continue Reading →
Last week Sara recommended several novels about friendship to consider reading this summer. One on her list I read this past year and highly recommend, Remarkably Bright Creatures, is a compelling fictional tale about the unique bonds formed between generations and species. Others on Sara’s list I look forward to reading during some time off... Continue Reading →
The first time my friend Wendy asked me to take a cigarette break with her, we were 17 years old. We had only known each other a few weeks, and she knew I was not a smoker. I looked at her and laughed, but she rolled her eyes and said, "You don't have to smoke.... Continue Reading →
Earlier this month, I lost my beautiful friend Tracy to melanoma. Tracy and I met in the late 1990s through a mutual friend, and over the years, we shared the ups and downs of professional life, family dynamics, and travel adventures. Tracy was a person whose life radiated outward, continually widening her circle and bringing... Continue Reading →
Next month I have two major milestones: my 30th reunion with my MBA classmates from University of Chicago, and my 35th from Tufts University. Separated by two weeks and 900 miles, I’ll first join my Chicago Booth classmates at a dinner not far from home in downtown Chicago and then later fly to Boston to... Continue Reading →
We often think of support as something that happens in one direction, with the strong helping someone who is struggling. For someone who’s always seen themselves as the strong one, accepting support can be a challenge. Yet when two people in need help each other, both may experience a much-needed boost. I witnessed this dynamic... Continue Reading →
Language of Friendship 