When life gets busy, it can be hard to pause and find joy in the small things. Itโs easy to assume that something new will bring us happiness, but as Sara wrote in an earlier post, more stuff doesnโt lead to happiness or fulfillment. And weโve all experienced how the glow that comes from a... Continue Reading →
Finding New Friends
Moving to a new city is never easy, especially when it involves long distance. Leaving behind friends and familiar surroundings can trigger heavy feelings of loss, and navigating the magnitude of change involved with a relocation can be difficult for anyone. Yet, I have watched one of my longtime friends gracefully manage big moves multiple... Continue Reading →
Acts of Kindness
Today is Random Acts of Kindness Day, a national holiday started nearly 30 years ago to recognize and encourage expressions of kindness towards others. Scientific research backs up the value of kindness to both the person spreading it and the recipient, with an article from the fall of 2022 illustrating how meaningful randoms acts of... Continue Reading →
Loving Our Hearts
February has long been associated with hearts. Valentineโs Day dates back centuries, with some origin stories going back as far as the 5th century. So, when former President Lyndon Johnson, a sufferer of heart disease, wanted to raise awareness about heart health, itโs fitting that he selected February to be heart month. In the fifty... Continue Reading →
A Legacy of Love and Friendship
A year well lived. Those words graced the front of the 2023 holiday card that my mom sent to dozens of friends and family members late last year. My mom, Wilma, always loved sending and receiving holiday cards and embraced the trend of cards filled with family photos and an update on the family milestones.... Continue Reading →
Friendship Resolutions
January has become one of my favorite months. The frenetic pace and stress of the holidays has ended and the days are finally starting to lengthen, if just a bit. Itโs also time for fresh starts. Iโve found that when I view January with a sense of possibility, it allows me to prioritize what I... Continue Reading →
Christmas Bells
One of my favorite holiday traditions in Chicago is visiting the Christmas Around the World and Holiday of Lights exhibit at the Museum of Science and Industry. When my boys were young, weโd bring them to see the dozens of Christmas trees decorated to represent cultures around the world. While we loved seeing all of the trees, weโd... Continue Reading →
Remembering Friendship
Last weekend I flew from Chicago to Washington, DC, for a 36-hour visit with family. Some might find quick trips like this one to be stressful, but it felt restorative for me. I spent time with my mom and younger siblings, and I returned to a place that still feels like home. Although my family... Continue Reading →
Friendship Season
Any time of year is a perfect time of year to savor friendships, but the holiday season offers a wealth of opportunities to create memories together with friends. Recognizing that schedules can be challenging to coordinate as the holidays approach, this week we share a variety of ideas for honoring friendships this season. ย 1.... Continue Reading →
Birthday Wishes
While November signals the start of the holiday season for most people, here at Language of Friendship, we tend to think of November as birthday season. Sara shared last year that our LOF editorial team, and even her dog Winnie, all have birthdays within the same week! And despite how busy life gets, birthdays provide... Continue Reading →